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    I've been hooking up with this guy for a couple of weeks already and I feel that this might turn into something more serious. Can you guys help me out on how I would tell him that I want to take things on a more serious level

  • #2
    Do you really think that he feels the same thing towards you? Better make sure that it's something mutual since you might end up being the one who's making sure that the relationship would work


    • CalmTits
      CalmTits commented
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      That is why people should never assume thing because most of the times, things don't go our way.

    • INeedSome1
      INeedSome1 commented
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      CalmTits I know. I hope she can read our comments.

  • #3
    I would suggest to keep your feeling to yourself first and let him be the one who ask you that question


    • #4
      I always make sure that my hookup would remain a hookup no matter what. And I always make sure to keep my feeling in check


      • #5
        I suggest that don't rush things up, observe him first and try to see if he have the same feelings towards you.


        • #6
          Never crossed that line because it would only make look extra needy


          • SkykesNM
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            The only time that you would be considered as extra needy is when you're already needy to begin with

          • doggygirl
            doggygirl commented
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            SkykesNM Wutt?? I didn't get that.

        • #7
          Well, I have to know that he shares the same feelings before making it a real relationship. I don't want to end up being in a one sided relationship


          • #8
            Why not try asking him more personal questions after you guys hook up or try and go out with him on a real date and see his reaction to those plans and questions


            • JazzPer
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              That would be a great idea. I hope she will follow this suggestion.

            • GianneQW
              GianneQW commented
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              JazzPer Thanks. I also hope she will notice me.

          • #9
            Originally posted by sweetlove View Post
            I don't want to end up being in a one sided relationship
            She's right you don't want to be in that sort of relationship so you have to make sure that what you're feeling towards him would be reciprocated


            • #10
              Lol! You don't need to do that, dear. Let him be the one to ask it to you.


              • MarlaZinger
                MarlaZinger commented
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                That's right. Why would she be the one taking the first move?

            • #11
              So have you told him already what you feel towards him? WendyShakes


              • Jasmmy76
                Jasmmy76 commented
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                It seems like you are really interested with WendyShakes