On the verge of breakup

[Jazza76]

I'll get straight to the point, I have recently noticed my boyfriend is getting more cold and distant. From a sweet guy that used to text me non-stop everyday to the point that he doesn't even bother to reply to my text. 100% of this is on me, I have been displaying an immature, childish, short-tempered and rough attitude towards him during our relationship. So, is there anyway I can turn things around?

[NaughtyNCute]

I am advising that texting is not the best basis/foundation for a relationship. It should be used as a convenience, not as a substitute for a real relationship that takes time.

[Jasmmy76]

I don't also like texting so much and its more genuine if we could hear them out personally.

[darkside9]

Are you suggesting that she tries to talk to him in person so that she would know where their relationship is at the moment?

[Synthia14]

I would suggest that you talk to him in person about it. Also you shouldn't put the entire blame on yourself on this. I bet that he has done things or has habits that annoys you as well and you just let it slide.

[MarcyPlayground]

Yeah, I think she totally blames herself for his boyfriend being distant. The best way to put and solve this is for them to talk about the problem.

[Mariannelou]

Do you feel that he's really worth staying with for? Maybe you have to work on yourself first and once you feel that you've finally removed that things that you've mentioned, that's the time you try and find a guy again.

[ElishaBrandin]

If it's never too late then you should start changing and be mature in your relationship. Maybe apologize what you think is wrong about you and talk to him so you will know more about the problem why he'd turn cold and distant towards you.

[INeedSome1]

Yeah, the best course of action is to open up and know what causes him to be cold.

[Caroline26]

How long have you been together exactly? Because if you've been together for more than a year and you still act like the way that you've just described, then it is definitely your fault. There might have been times that he has told you to change those negative things about you and you just ignored him. That might be the reason why he's been distancing himself from you.

[CalmTits]

I think that she never tried to change those negative traits that she had that's why she's blaming herself for it.

[Caroline26]

CalmTits That's too bad and she should act now or else it will be over in no time.

[CalmTits]

Yes, if she loves him then she has to change

[MarrahJA]

Just follow the advice of Synthia14 and maybe promise the guy that you would do your best to avoid doing the things that you've just mentioned.

[PussyGalore]

I feel that it would take her a long time before she can eventually change those negative things about her.

[MarrahJA]

Yeah, but still, it depends on her. Who knows right?

[ShayaLDF]

I thought he is getting more cold and distant because he is not getting enough sex lol. Try to communicate and be sweet on him maybe something will change.

[ThristyMisty]

There's a chance that they're not having any sexy time at the moment that's why he's being cold towards her.

[TittyTassle]

Maybe he needs those body heats that's why he is cold and needs a little bit of friction lol.

[MonStar]

I would suggest that you just break up with him already and try to date someone who can handle your behavior properly. Sounds like that he has given up on your relationship already.

[GoldieSnitch]

Is this your way of telling her to go out with you? LMAO

[RopeShow]

MonStar if she asks you out for a date, are you going to say yes to her offer or not?

[JazzPer]

I agree with MonStar here. Maybe it is time for the two of you to break up already since there is a slim chance to he would take you back even if you changed your attitude.

[sweetlove]

I was thinking that too since it's obvious that he hates her and maybe wants to get rid of her already.

[NaughtyNCute]

I'm already foreseeing that he is flirting with other girls. Don't get my wrong I've been with guys who were cold and does not answer me back and be optimistic that he might be cheating on you.

[MarlaZinger]

How many guys have you been with who ended up cheating on you?

[Sia55]

What made you think that he might be flirting with different girls already?

[NaughtyNCute]

MarlaZinger Actually 3 of them, Sia55 girl, if he is cheating on you he doesn't care you and he will not reply all of your messages.

[AbsTrack]

Have you already talked to your boyfriend or he's still avoiding you by not replying to your messages and answering your calls?

[Olga78]

I think addictedcansi might be right that the two of them have broke up already.

[AbsTrack]

Olga78 then, if they already broken up what they need is a proper closure to settle things on both sides.

[addictedcansi]

AbsTrack cause she's not satisfied with how things ended and so she wants more explanation or the closure that they had might not be a good one.

[maritte029]

Why don't you try to confront him? Maybe he have other problem and he doesn't you to get involve.