Turned cold

[Cynthax12]

You and your partner have been together for more than a year. Things were fine at the start of the relationship. Suddenly, you could no longer understand the behavior of your partner. He has become cold towards you and you do not want know the reason why. What are you going to do next?

[ChokeMe]

There is a reason why he suddenly turned cold towards you. It could be that there is already someone new who makes him hot. Would you like to investigate for more?

[NathaneJG]

You could also just talk to him and ask him why. Men sometimes just miss something that is why they do those.

[ONENINE]

Don't think to fast that he already has a new one unless he doesn't like the girl anymore.

[Caroline26]

You could ask him for the reason. Of course, there is a reason why. There could be something that has been bothering him like a problem on his side. What if he had a diagnosis that he could still live up to 4 weeks maximum?

[darkside9]

Why did you immediately thought that he might be dying? Can't believe how this topic took a morbid turn.

[sweetgal12]

Oh wow, this is the kind of thing that I saw on TV series lol by the way, this is the reason in this case hahah

[addictedcansi]

Try and talk to him about it. And if he doesn't want to mention the reason behind his change, just tell him that keeping secrets from each other can ruin your relationship.

[CarolNM]

It is better to talk to your partner about your problems rather than keeping it a secret to each other.

[Shaialyn23]

If he doesn't want to tell you the reason, just give him some time to think about it and for sure he would share it with you if he is already ready.

[Jennstone71]

Maybe set him on fire so he will become hot! Just kidding! If he turned out cold on you then better ignite the flame by means of surprise, make love with him or try something new together.

[Jennstone71]

Of course, everybody love sex. Cransha30

[Cransha30]

I know, I don't think that there is a person who doesn't like it. Jennstone71

[Jennstone71]

I am sure most of us love that. because sex can makes us happy. Jennstone71

[ShayaLDF]

Discover his soft spot and try to impress him with new things, If it works then that might bring the spark back to your relationship.

[aria75]

If it did not? Any more suggestions?

[JazzPer]

Like his or her sensitive side? That might work if we somehow manage to touch them through actions.

[Cynthax12]

ShayaLDF I think that would be a good idea but, I don't think that that would work for him if he already have someone who make him hot.

[Jacky67]

If you can't understand his behaviour anymore then you should be worrying that he might be seeing someone else other than you. Well, we can assume it so we could be safe and not ignorant about why he got cold towards you.

[AddyWilliams]

It's better to find the reason why he got cold on you and if it's your fault that something might be missing.

[Cynthax12]

If you are in that situation are you going to leave him?

[Jacky67]

Of course, that would be enough to reason to leave him.

[MonStar]

If one of you is already cold then both of you must do something that will get that boredom out of the way, As time and feeling fade its pretty normal that one is already losing interest with the other.

[CalmTits]

Do you really think that boredom is the only reason why they're starting to be cold towards each other?

[NYCutie]

That applies to people who do not put importance on the relationship.

[Cynthax12]

MonStar Maybe there is a third party, and that is why the partner is being cold.

[ThristyMisty]

Are you sure that this is the first time that it happened? Because there might have been times that he has done that, but you didn't noticed it.

[4never]

It must have happened a few times but those are the ones we let cross or pass on us.

[Cynthax12]

ThristyMisty You might be right, and this is even worse right?

[Cynthax12]

Yes it's the first time but he said we are okay. so I start hooking up with other people. I know it's bitchy but it feels really good.

[rennie32]

If he doesn't love me anymore, I won't forced him to stay with me.

[Cynthax12]

I did not and clarified the reason why. He just told me it was the pandemic effect. crazy but I still did not let him go.. BUT, I was having short hook ups with random guys

[sweetgal12]

You and your partner have been together for more than a year. Things were fine at the start of the relationship. Suddenly, you could no longer understand the behavior of your partner. He has become cold towards you and you do not want know the reason why. What are you going to do next?

Sit down with him and talk about it. If it still goes on then I'll ask him if he still wanna do it cause if not, better not waste each others time.

[Cynthax12]

oh I did but it went to nowhere. so I am not single and literally cold this winter.. LOL

[sweetgal12]

did you try hooking up Cynthax12 I meant for sure there are a lot of single out there, I went to a Christmas party at a hotel nearby and hooked up with 2 guys in one night.. that was amazing lol should have done a threesome

[Cynthax12]

I was about to ask you if you guys did a threesome sweetgal12 but yeah,. the guy turned cold and it was game over. but it's fine. Not the only dick in the world. We have too many choices. lol